Honey

As valentine's day is here, let me just voice out what I think. There was a saying about those guys who are seriously getting involved in relationships, they'll talk of marriage, they'll always let you know that you're going to be their bride in a fine day soon. But I disagreed with that. Don't ever trust the words, trust the actions. I don't think anyone should ever bringing up the topic of holy marriage to every person they had some special kind of connection with. That only makes the proposal is nothing but a cheap, meaningless, disposable thing. Maybe there are young ladies out there who love those cheesy stuffs, but I guess I'm not one of them. Well I used to be like them, but now not anymore. I mean, can't you just live the moment? Perhaps, getting to know each other's favourite food, the type of music they listened to at the end of a gloomy day, her treasured flowers, his best loved places and so on. There are tons of thing you should learn about someone for the time being, before you even dare to speak of "let's get married". Come on! We may be nothing like all the white couples out there, but at least just try to steal some of their classy parts of the way they recognized each others' strengths and weaknesses first, before they get down on one knee, hand out a ring and hear a "yes". Now that's a true gentleman. But don't you ever give a shot on the sex before marriage part, or anything around that neighbourhood. Don't.

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